So yesterday was Valentine's day. Some of us may be singles, others have a date and some of us are attached/married. Today i to talk a little about being single and looking for a partner.
It's common for the singles, both guys and ladies to go for social event meant for the singles. And while we go to such event, we go there with certain expectations. The guy must be rich, handsome and young etc.. The ladies have good figure, long hair etc. While we have the ''ideal/perfect'' partner in mind, does he/she ever exists?
I'm sorry but No! Be it, in the past, present or future there will never be a perfect couple don't even say the perfect relationship. I speak from experience. I used to write down the criteria of my ideal partner. But guess what, she never exists. Now that i know she doesn't exists, am i still hanging on to my fantasy? No!
Rather, i trust Him to provide and bring the girl when the time is right. So what do i do in the meantime? I go and enrich and equip myself. I do not desperately go and ask around if there is any ladies that is willing to go out with me.
Here's the truth, tested and proven: Trust Him in all your ways. Commit your plans to Him. Jenny is the perfect example. She came from Him.
Sunday, February 14, 2016
Tuesday, February 9, 2016
Our 1st anniversary
To her, i want to say:
There will never be another one like you. When i thought i will surely be single all my life, God allowed me to meet you. And though there was disagreements, silly arguments, i thank God we're still here and together. None of us are perfect. But it is through our imperfectness, that we know each other better. And for that, i am grateful. Surely there are many good and pretty girls out there, i thank God for knowing Jenny. I guess there wouldn't be another one like you. This journey hasn't been easy but nonetheless, we're still here and will surely be.
There will never be another one like you. When i thought i will surely be single all my life, God allowed me to meet you. And though there was disagreements, silly arguments, i thank God we're still here and together. None of us are perfect. But it is through our imperfectness, that we know each other better. And for that, i am grateful. Surely there are many good and pretty girls out there, i thank God for knowing Jenny. I guess there wouldn't be another one like you. This journey hasn't been easy but nonetheless, we're still here and will surely be.
Wednesday, January 6, 2016
Never Lose Heart
So 2015 is over and 2016 has just begun.
I'm not sure about you but 2015 has been a series of good and bad. And as the new year has began, as always, we have this practice of setting goals. It's something we do almost every beginning of the year. But while we're busy setting goals for this year, let us think: What if we failed to see the goals achieved? What is our respond when things didn't go as what we planned?
Friends, no matter what has happened in 2015, or what may be installed for 2016, never lose heart. Perhaps 2015 may not be a good or the best year for you, do not lose heart. I've been thinking and to a certain degree i do agree,'' things will always get better.'' That phase has been in my head for the last few weeks.
2016. Some of us may have great plans for 2016. We set goals to do this and that. We want to travel, get attached etc.. But while we're excited to see the plans come true, never lose your heart over these.
''Keep vigilant watch over your heart; that's where life starts.''
I'm not sure about you but 2015 has been a series of good and bad. And as the new year has began, as always, we have this practice of setting goals. It's something we do almost every beginning of the year. But while we're busy setting goals for this year, let us think: What if we failed to see the goals achieved? What is our respond when things didn't go as what we planned?
Friends, no matter what has happened in 2015, or what may be installed for 2016, never lose heart. Perhaps 2015 may not be a good or the best year for you, do not lose heart. I've been thinking and to a certain degree i do agree,'' things will always get better.'' That phase has been in my head for the last few weeks.
2016. Some of us may have great plans for 2016. We set goals to do this and that. We want to travel, get attached etc.. But while we're excited to see the plans come true, never lose your heart over these.
''Keep vigilant watch over your heart; that's where life starts.''
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